20 Things People Over 20 Should Stop Doing
BY JARRID
WILSON
FEBRUARY 10, 2014
Jarrid Wilson is a pastor, blogger
and author whose motivation is to speak life through relevant, yet challenging
and pivotal messages. He currently lives in Bellingham Wash., studies
theology/biblical studies at Liberty University, and has a passion to raise up
the next generation to know the love of God. Find him on Facebook
and check out his new book 30 Words .
A few things to leave behind in the transition to adulthood. You've made it through your teens
and most (or maybe all) of your schooling. You've probably had at least one job
or internship. You've (hopefully) learned to act mature and professional. But
your twenties are a time for even more growth, for becoming independent and
taking responsibility for your actions and how you influence others. To that
end, here are 20 things people over 20 should stop doing. And believe me, I’ve
been guilty of most of them.
1. Spending money you don’t have
Credit cards may seem like an easy
way to pay for things you really want, but in the long run they could really
hurt you if not properly used. Stick to cash, debit or checks. This may seem
old-school, but they will definitely help you manage your money.
2. Wasting
time on mindless entertainment instead of looking for a job
Video games (or Netflix or Facebook
or whatever your choice of entertainment) can be extremely fun, but those games
can sure take up a lot of valuable time that could be spent on more important
areas of life. There is nothing wrong with playing them, as long as you balance
the time needed for school, work and other important aspects of life.
3. Using
the term “YOLO”
Simple. Please stop using it.
4. Only
going to church to find a relationship
Not only will you hurt yourself in
the long run, but you are also selfishly taking time away from a man or woman
who is seeking after God’s wisdom and guidance. You can definitely find a great
relationship at church, but don’t make that your only reason for attending.
YOU CAN DEFINITELY FIND A GREAT RELATIONSHIP AT CHURCH, BUT DON’T MAKE
THAT YOUR ONLY REASON FOR ATTENDING.
5. Citing
“Google” on a college paper or work presentation
It’s not a valid citation, and it
could get you in some trouble.
6. Thinking
you know it all
Nobody wants to spend time around a
know-it-all. Walk in a posture of learning, and embrace every opportunity to
gain new knowledge and wisdom.
7. Dating
with no vision
You’re confusing your heart, and
you’re hurting the hearts of others.
8. Demanding
respect before you’ve earned it
Don’t get prideful. Learn to scrub
the floors before you ask to manage the building. Don’t let self entitlement
get the best of you.
9. Waiting
until the last minute to do things
Stop procrastinating! Teach yourself
diligence in all circumstances. Not only will this help you in your day-to-day
life, but it will always help you set yourself up for the future.
10. Getting
in arguments over social media
Nobody wants to see your drama on their
news feed. Keep it to yourself and the people involved. Handle each situation
in a mature and honorable manner.
11. Blaming
others for your own mistakes
Drop your pride. Accept your
failures. Learn from your mistakes. You will learn a lot from the process.
12. Relying
on your mother and father to constantly bail you out of trouble
Learn to take care of yourself
instead of always relying on your mother and father. They aren’t always going
to be around to help you.
13. Calling
off work for no reason
You aren’t doing anyone a favor by
calling off. Learn to be responsible, and value that job someone else in the
world wishes they had.
14.
Ignoring wisdom from people who are older than you
You don’t know everything. Take time
to learn from people who having been living longer than you.
15. Thinking
minimum wage is worse than no job at all
Don’t believe the lie that money is
everything. Any job is a good start. Give your full attention to any job, no
matter the pay.
16.
Pretending like you didn’t know any better
Purposeful ignorance will only get you
so far. Own up to your mistakes and take each failure as an opportunity to
learn.
17. Using
the excuse, “I’m too young”
You’re never too young. There is
always room for you to succeed when hope is on your side. Have faith in
yourself and the gifts God has given you.
IF YOU DON’T STAND FOR SOMETHING, YOU’LL EVENTUALLY FALL FOR ANYTHING.
18. Not
planning for the future
Be diligent and plan for the future.
Give yourself some goals, dreams and future aspirations. Give yourself
something to wake up for in the morning.
19. Giving
up before you start. Stop making excuses!
Excuses won’t get you anywhere!
Better to try and fail than to regret never trying at all. At least you will
learn something.
20. Being
passive
If you don’t stand for something,
you’ll eventually fall for anything.
There are
plenty more things you should stop doing and other things you should start
doing. Remember that no one is perfect, and these points are all things I
myself have once struggled with or witnessed. But take some time to think
through habits you need to give up and habits you need to cultivate. It will
help guide your transition into true adulthood with fewer regrets and pitfalls.
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